The decision to start a new life can feel overwhelming. Through the YourDIVORCE Solution we will work through the intake process, gathering your resources, establishing a plan, and supporting you through implementation. This starter kit is 5 weeks working together.
YES! you can heal
YES! you can have a happy family
YES! you can be successful and independent
In our 5 weeks together we will discuss the challenges you are currently having.
The first session will be getting to know you, your situation and what pieces to your situation you are struggling to understand. This assessment will help us decide what part(s) of the process you are having a hard time understanding, which part(s) you already have and which part(s) you DON'T even know you need. The saying 'you don't know what you don't know...' rings true. By the end of this session we will discuss the action plan and next steps to be taken by YOU and by ME.
The following 4 sessions are dedicated around the needs assessment, but often include the following:
- Terminology - it's a new world of lingo, you might as well understand what people are saying!
- Go over some understanding of the process and its timelines - this really depends, but its easier to manage when you have some idea of expectation
- Expenses you might expect to see - and how you can reduce some costs
- Income changes and asset management education - Credit and assets are not treated equal, know the difference
- How to manage your emotions: with your family, your friends, the school, and your employer, etc... - this is a big emotion to handle, you need some new tools
- Managing your finances, home maintenance, parenting challenges, informing the school
- Giving space for the grief process
- Managing dating and relationships and the effects on your children
- RE-BUILDING a new life for yourself and your new family model
We can find solutions together. Other areas we will look include building new ideals, and traditions, self care, and personal development or growth. Work life balance and deciding if additional tools, activities, or knowledge partners are needed. The path is driven by each persons individual story.
What can seem like trying to climb the highest mountain, or like the biggest personal challenge when broken down into its individual parts can be overcome!
Success is available and ready for you.
Now I want to help you.
Some paths to independent parenting are less obvious: by circumstance, chance or change.
And each situation has varying circumstances that involve different organizations: differing levels of Government, Doctors, schools, courts(?), etc
We will work on strategies to organize your home and its processes. Figure out how you can get the much needed break without breaking the bank, search for ways to make goals and achieve success while still raising your family up. As independent parents we are lacking resources (money, time, help, that shoulder to lean on...). You need to find the strategy to move forward with your life and balance the family (and possibly a new relationship).
We will work together to figure out how to make your life more efficient, productive, and satisfying. Allowing for freedom in your life, peace of mind, and satisfying new goals.
I know it can be hard to imagine! In building my own family's success story, I know it's possible!
Let's set you on the path to success with the YourPARENTING Solution!
Our first session starts with assessing your needs. We will spend 1 1/2 hours assessing your specific challenges. Investigating what areas of your life you are desiring to change, and looking to find where you may need more research or a strategy partner to overcome.
In our 4 (1 hour) follow-up sessions we will put together a strategy, set new goals and plan how we will master your unique situation.
Wherever you are in your journey, I am here to help!
Parenting and raising a family is a challenge even for the best of situations. Now with your new situation that probably wasn't part of your life plan. Being an independent parent creates a new set of challenges, along with a new set of freedoms.
Maybe you need someone to help you organize and put into place a strategy to move forward. Figure out where you need to go, what needs more research, find a specific resource or source a specific need. This is where you can take advantage of my innate abilities and desire to help. To set you on the path to success!
If you aren't sure where you are or what you need in your process, we can work together on a consultation basis.
More about why you need me...
Designing your new life should be momentous and celebrated.
I have been there. I will be there to support you with deep care. Your journey can benefit from the knowledge and experience of my own journey. Without judgement, without implication.
You will have me as long as you need me, with guidance, concern, driving you to the end goal of implementing your new life plan.